There is no easy button to end an affair, but this book will make you a lot more clear about what has caused your affair. where your affair is heading, what type of affair you're in and, finally, how to end it and stop all the pain.
This is not an ordinary ebook, as it goes into some pretty deep psychological stuff. The person behind it, Dr. Bob Cummings (yes, he’s a doctor) knows his stuff.
In his book, you will learn:
- 7 different types of affairs. You can pinpoint which affair type you are in, as different types need to be handled differently.
- How you can predict WHERE your affair is heading. Yes, you can tell exactly what is going to happen down the road by certain signs. These are pure genius.
- How to save your marriage even if you've been caught cheating, and turn a crisis into new opportunity. This is something most people screw up totally.
- Which strategy works best in your situation.
Just look at what are the 7 types of affairs he has identified:
- My Marriage Made Me Do It
- I Can't Say No
- I Don't Wang To Say No
- I Fell Out Of Love (and just love to be in love)
- I Want To Get Back At Him/Her
- I Need To Prove My Desirability
- I Want To Be Close To Someone (which means I can't stand intimacy)
- send messages
- use silence
- get to the real commitment
- leap your partner
- look for upset
- contextualize
- peel away layers to the truth
- gap the goal
- and 8 more skills and communication tools
